AIDS WALK NYC 2017. WALKING FOR A CAUSE.

  On Sunday, May 21st in the heart of New York City’s  greatest landscape, Central Park, GMHC hosted it’s annual AIDS WALK. Every year for the past 17 years, GMHC has sponsored the NYC AIDS Walk. GMHC is the world’s first and leading provider of HIV/AIDS prevention, care and advocacy. Building on decades of dedication and expertise, they understand the reality of HIV/AIDS and empower a healthy life for all.

My personal journey with HIV/AIDS started 25 years ago. At the age of 18 my Beloved mother Destiny Michelle Portier broke the news to our family that she was indeed infected with HIV. After the initial shock and all the tears were cried, the fact remained she was HIV Positive. My mother was 42 when diagnosed, we never knew how long she was infected before her actual diagnosis. For the next three years there were ups and downs in her health and emotional state, through it all I wondered why her, she was a great mother, provider and teacher. What did she do for God to punish her in this fashion? Note that My mother Michelle, stop using intravenous drugs 2 plus years prior to her diagnosis. It was a lot to handle as a 18 year old young man who basically was the man of the house with 4 minor children to look after. When she succumb to the illness which was documented on her death certificate as  Pneumocystis pneumonia, at the time I had no idea what it was or even how to pronounce it. Now, years later and better informed with NYS certification on HIV/AIDS I am now qualified to teach classes and groups about HIV health and prevention. I take solace in knowing because of my mother’s addiction and illness I learned and can help others who may be dealing with the virus and  I can educate people on what steps to take to keep from being infected.

The AIDS WALK has been established to help promote awareness of the HIV and AIDS epidemic. It also assist with support and encouragement to those who are living with the disease as well as family members and friends of people who are infected. To date, over 100,000 New Yorkers have died from AIDS-related causes. HIV is the third leading cause of death forNYC residents ages 35 to 54. In NYC, 68% of new HIV diagnoses were among men who have sex with men (MSM), a group that has always been heavily affected by HIV/AIDSand remains at high risk.

  This year, the weather was perfect for a walk in the park. The sun was waving from above as the breeze wrapped around one like a blanket, it was a perfect combination. The diversity of individuals were wide and far. LGBTQ, heterosexuals and gender fluid individuals as well. The walk starting point was at the 59st and 5th avenue entrance of Central Park. The route stretched upwards to NYC’s famous section, Harlem and 110st. Participants then crossed from Lenox Avenue, Malcolm X BLVD to Riverside Drive and worked their way back to the 79 st entrance of Central Park.
There were performers stationed along the 6.2 miles that stretched the walk route. Singers, African Drummers, Modern Dancers, jazz bands and of course live DJs spinning feel good music to help the participants get through the walk.
That day was one of solidarity, everyone there may have been there for different reasons but everyone was there for the same cause. BRING AWARENESS & TO FIND A CURE.

The different teams were many, however it was a camaraderie amongst the walkers. There was personal teams such as The Dream Team, The Frederick Walkers, In memory of Destiny Michelle and many more as well as non profit organizations and what seemed to be a whole church congregation. As people walked in memory of or support of the sea of red was a beautiful sight for a beautiful cause. It is estimated the NYC AIDS WALK raised 3.6 million dollars. These funds go towards finding a cure, assisting people living with HIV/AIDS and a sleuth of other causes connected to HIV education and services.

I ask do not take this one day for granted, please continue to educate yourself and others about this illness that can be stopped if we are educated and protect ourselves. #safesex #sterileneedles
Written by Sugarhill Sky.
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The Ever Failing System

A considerable amount of American citizens live a life of poverty. Some are impoverished due to unemployment, some are disabled, others earn low wages. They are all impoverishment none the less. The American government created social service agencies to assist these vulnerable citizens in life or at least that is the claim.

In New York State The Department of Human Resource Administration is the agency that was appointed to assist low income families that are living in poverty. This is a system that is failing miserably. Let me explain further.

The ultimate goal of the Human Resource Administration is to provide temporary assistance to needy citizens of New York State. This hardly ever happens. Instead HRA creates dependency for some.

The Back To Work program is inadequate! The program does work for some but the reality is that very few public assistance recipients find work while attending the Back To Work program. In my opinion the purpose of the Back To Work Program is to justify the modern day slavery that is called the Work Experience Program or WEP.

The Work Experience Program does not benefit the public assistance recipient. In fact the recipient skills, qualifications, certifications and interest are never evaluated when issuing these WEP assignments. A computer randomly picks an assignment in a location that is not more than an hour away in traveling time.

When a public assistance recipients is fortunate enough to obtain employment they are deterred. The Human Resource Administration makes returning to work inconvenient. A person who is recently employed must now take days off from work to respond to mandatory appointments. If this is not enough child care sometimes lapse for working parents because someone neglected to file the paperwork properly. Even worse than that a working person can have issues with housing due to departmental errors.

This is bureaucracy intended to keep the impoverished depended on a failing system.

Written by: Regina Alston

Bronx Festival 2017

For the first time ever, I had the opportunity to witness my very first experience at the Bronx Festival this year at Mosholu Parkway. I walked around and saw lots of people of course, bought me a really dope hip hop t-shirt in honor of one of my favorites hip hop artists, who I ended up actually seeing live and met later in the day, saw the parade and enjoyed some really dope performances too. Celebrating hip hop culture mostly with performances from Doug E. Fresh and Slick Rick and a bunch of other performances by really dope talented people. The best part about it all was meeting and interviewing the very cool and humble Bronx borough president himself Ruben Diaz, Jr. This man is actually someone who I admire for not only his great personality but the way people loved and respected him and how connected he is with the people of all backgrounds. He actually interacted with the people, took some pictures, shook hands, shared hugs, and danced and had a good time with us too. Not a stuck up person at all. His vibe is extremely positive; you can’t help but to respect him. The parade is where I first saw all those different types of backgrounds and cultures. So many different looks, languages, music, the food, everything. Even with all the different schools and programs, seeing all the little kids with their families and loved ones and all kinds of other stuff, it was all positive stuff. Such an amazing day with lots of fun, culture and love. No fights, no arguments, no altercations, no drama, even the security and cops were laughing and enjoying their time too. This Bronx Festival only proved how positive the borough is as a unit. Everybody there were mostly born and/or raised here in The Bronx and we all came together from different areas in the borough. It shuts down all of the negative stereotypes and false pretenses that people make up about the borough that I hear about a lot, it can be annoying but this festival proved otherwise and I’m just very happy and glad I got the opportunity to be a part of it. As the saying goes, like KRS-One once said, “The Bronx keeps creating it.” This one’s for The Bronx. This one’s for hip hop, the people, the incredible Bronx borough president Mr. Ruben Diaz, Jr. Thank you sir! Peace and Love!

OH MOTHER OF MINES

On March 26, 2017 my mother lost her battle with cancer. I will never forget the day that the doctor informed us that my mother had cancer. By the year she was diagnosed in October of 2016 she was already in the fourth stage. My heart skipped a beat. I took a deep breath before I inquired about her life expectancy. When the doctor informed me that it would be six months to a year I wanted to break down and cry. I couldn’t. She was right there. I had to be strong for her.

The cancer was progressing rapidly. My mom who was already a very small woman began to loose weight rapidly. Still she was a fighter. She woke up everyday and lived life. Just before Thanksgiving my mother was hospitalized. It was during that stay that the doctors told me that my mother was incapable of taking care of herself. She had two options, a nursing home or at home hospice care.

My mother refused the nursing home care and chose to move in with me. The hospital social workers and doctors tried to convince me to talk her into doing into an impatient hospice facility or nursing home. Instead I did what I felt was my responsibility as a daughter and moved my mother in to my home.

The transition was a difficult process for my mother. She lived independently since the age of eighteen years old. I had a full time work and school schedule along with a 5 and 3 year old. Life was busy. Still I did all that I could to keep my mother comfortable. Watching her decline was unbearable. I prayed endlessly. First I asked God to take away the cancer and heal her. Then I began asking God to end her pain. At one point I even asked God to take her up to heaven. I even begged my mother to stop fighting and let go.

I was tired of seeing her in pain. I was tired of the parade of nurses, home attendants and social workers in and out of my living space. I went through all of the stages of grief.

When my mom left me to claim her spot in heaven it was a Sunday evening. That weekend I invited her closest family members to come spend time with her so that they could say their goodbyes. I knew her life was coming to an end. My mom’s body began to shut down. She had no desire to eat food or drink liquids. I called up the nurse and asked her to come check my mother out. She confirmed what I already knew. My mother was end of life.

We arrived at the Haven Hospice Unit inside of Bellevue Hospital about 2:30p.m. I felt numb. I knew what was about to happen. I called my daughter to the hospital so she can bid her grandmother farewell.

A little after 9p.m. I stood by mother’s bedside. I turned on Take Me To The King by Tamela Mann and sang the entire song to my mother. When the song ended I kissed her and my mother took her last breath. I remember that day like it was yesterday.

Caring for a loved one with cancer is very difficult. You are forced to watch your loved one disintegrate. I watched my mother who was strong and independent become weak and fragile. It hurt me to see her in pain and not be able to do anything to help her. Every time I came into my home I feared that I would go into her room and discover the worst.

I am thankful that I was able to be there for her. I am blessed to have been there to care for her as a way of thanking her for giving me life. There is not a day that goes by that I don’t think about my angel.

 

THE PRISONER’S FAMILY

Being an inmate in a city jail, a state prison or a federal penitentiary is hell to any person that is confined in these trying circumstances. Prisoners are sometimes subjected to violence. They are made to eat less than desirable food. They work for very little pay. The inmates are disrespected by corrections officers. Prisoners are treated inhumane.

This is a sad situation for any human being to endure. What is worst than that is the strain that an incarceration can put on the prisoner’s family. It is like the family is being punished for the crime that their loved one committed.

The visiting process is enough to make any loved one feel violated. Being searched to enter a facility feels like a complete violation. Family members tend to feel degraded when we are asked to remove socks and shoes, shake out our bras and then wait until the loved one is produced which can take anywhere from a few minutes to a few hours. Sometimes these visits can be as short as an hour. Exiting the facility and leaving your loved one behind is a very painful feeling.

Although inmates are allowed to communicate with loved ones by phone, mail and email the communication process is still not adequate. Inmates are at times restricted from using the phones. Loved ones of those incarcerated are in need of constant communication. The communication is what eases the fear that we have of the unknown.

Not only is having a loved one in prison emotionally draining, it is a financial burden. We have expenses and bills to pay. Now we are faced with depositing money into commissary accounts and sending off packages.

Still the realest victims are the children. Parents are missing precious moments and milestones. Although this is rough for an incarcerated parent it is even more painful for the child. Children suffer from feelings of fear, separation anxiety, loneliness and depression when a parent is incarcerated.

As adults we must be aware of our actions. We must be mindful that our actions affect other people. This is the world according to Regina.

Written: Regina Alston

MALE ROMPERS?

This entire week men rompers have been the hot topic. There has been talk on the news, memes on Facebook and conversations between total strangers.

Some people are not in favor of men wearing rompers. Their reason is because rompers are worn by women. It is even associated with homosexuality.

Rompers were originally donned by infants and small children but have been recently trending in the fashion world.

People please get a grip. Everyone possesses the freedom of choice. If a man decides to wear a romper please respect his decision. That does not make him gay or any less of a man. Judge not as you will be judged first.

This is the world according to Regina.

The Life and Celebration of DJ Scott La Rock

Yesterday on May 19th, 2017, the legendary DJ Scott La Rock finally gets his dedication and respects right here in The Bronx. Right on Kingsbridge Road, which is way Uptown on the 4 train, there was a street name celebration for the legend himself. DJ Scott La Rock was part of one of hip hop’s dopest crews who goes by the name Boogie Down Productions. Boogie Down Productions had its members The Teacha himself, the Blastmaster KRS-One and another DJ, who is also doing photography as well today, named D-Nice. 30 years ago, back in March, the group’s debut album “Criminal Minded” was released and five months after its release, Scott La Rock was tragically killed which changed everything within the group. KRS-One eventually went solo and even started going by “The Teacha.” BDP’s debut album not only had the combination sounds of both hip hop and reggae music but the album touched on subjects about the conflict of Where hip hop first derived from in the 80’s, which is where the classics “South Bronx” and “The Bridge Is Over” talks about. Being at that celebration was just something that was definitely an iconic moment for me just like so many other moments in my life. It was also something that made me proud of being from The Bronx. Made me proud as a hip hoppa. Even though I’m not from that particular area in The Bronx, it’s still something that was well overdue for the fallen legend. So nice to see fans, his family and other hip hop legends like Kool DJ Red Alert again, hip hop’s very own first MC Coke La Rock, Jazzy Jay, who is incredible on the turntables, and later on Popmaster Fabel, who is a dope pop locker and dancer. Hip hop is definitely deserving of so many things and more. I’m just happy I’m alive to have these experiences instead of the ones when it All first happened long ago.

What A Good Look. Kim Goodlook Seabrook

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It is said that laughter is good for the soul, so when I was invited to a comedy show to hear a Spoken Word Artist, I thought, hmmm this will be different. I had know idea how different…

The Black National Theatre of Harlem housed What To Do Ent. comedy show hosted by JC Best in conjunction with comedians OC the Bus Driver and Kenny Woo.

The opening act was a Spoken Word artist by the name of Kim Goodlook Seabrook. Seabrook is a Bronx native Spoken Word artist and radio personality. You can find her weekly on one of  New York City’s budding internet radio stations, I AXIS Radio. With her show Keepin’ it 100 with Kim and Della.

As the night got on its way and following her introduction from JC Best, Kim seemed to float out onto the stage, very poised and confident. She immediately surveyed the crowd and attached with the audience. Kim performed three pieces that night, Cocaine, A Woman’s Identity and Got Dam. The three pieces were very different in content but the same in rawness and reality.

The first piece, cocaine, as u would guest was creative writing about the opioid drug. It spoke of how it seems to be your friend in a time of despair however, just like all fairweather friends it let’s you down in the end. The twist and metephores GoodLook used was so vivid, at one time I literally felt chills as she performed. The second piece was dedicated to all woman kind. Kim relayed the message of don’t lose yourself being a wife, a mother an employee or whatever capacity it is you’re in day to day. The message was always remember to keep your identity as a woman first.
Ms.Seabrook did not forget about the men who was in attendance, she delivered a bold piece titled Got Damn, which focused on the struggle of the Black Man. Seabrook spewed so many truths and nuances about being a Black Man in America it received a standing ovation when it was over. This piece touched on nagging baby mothers, police harassment and much more, not to give too much away, this piece touches and goes into the depths of trying to survive in Amerikkka as a Black Man. Got Damn!
Once Kim bowed out from her performance, there were murmurs in the audience of wows and she’s deep along with she was a show all by herself. Sitting in the audience and to hear and see people’s genuine reaction to her tells a truth I couldn’t make up. Kim Goodlook Seabrook is a force to be reckoned with in the spoken word realm. Her sensual voice her command of tje stage and her piuse and cadence is unmatched. She is a humble person who exudes great energy. I recommend everyone see her live performance, you will not be disappointed. Until you get a chance to hear her live, listen to her pieces on SoundCloud…

Written by Sugarhill Sky.
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FREE LUNCH. IT’S WORTH MONEY. Review of Evrythng Cost’s New Ep.

In life, evolution is inevitable. The caterpillar transforms into the butterfly, the cub becomes a lion and the boy grows to be a man.

On April 7th there was a rebirth by the way of Evrythng Cost, formerly known as Mista Raja.

Evrythng Cost is a Bronx born, Bronx bred Writer, producer, A & R, actor and music artist who has worked with the likes of the great Legend Barry White to arguably one of this generations most musical and business geniuses Sean “Diddy” Combs.

Evrythng Cost is not a new guy on the scene by no means, what’s new is his approach to hip hop and to the world itself.  Cost has compiled an eight song Ep titled “Free Lunch”. When asked about the title Evrythng Cost stated “Its free food for thought.”  WOW. With a title and meaning such as that, it made me eager to listen to what I came to address now as a musical motion picture..

Free lunch starts off with a Strong boom bap driven track titled King. This track actually sets the tone for the entire project. With a light sample of  Run Dmc’s and  Pete Rock and CL Smooth “Down with the King” this track immediately shows Evrythng Cost’ ability to not only step out the box of “regular” rap or hip hop but to shatter it. King is a song that can be used as motivation and inspiration. King talks to the person who has been kicked, down and out or filled with doubt, it tells the listener, King is who you are through the trials and tribulations the  King of all Kings has a greater plan for you.

As Everything Cost takes the listener on a lyrical journey it is clear of his destination. He takes you to a  place of hope a place full of good energy. More importantly, he arrives at a place and delivers you to a place of great music. This Ep Free Lunch delivers the punch of thought provoking content accompanied by subtle samples and sharp and tight live musicical arrangements.

Songs such as shake it off, Green Light and one of my favorites Living the Light featuring the Talented daughter of the late Great Isaac Hayes, Heather Hayes who spices up the track with her harmonious voice takes this monster of a record to whole other level. Living the Light is one of the tracks that should be placed on popular radio stations rotation’s  list.

Cost doesn’t forget even in a world where he may want more love and kindness between all of us with less hatred and grief, there will always be that yearning and motivation to be in a better place financially. He addresses that issue with the uptempo bounce record Dat Bag. As the ep comes to a close Evrythng Cost leaves you with a track titled Can’t Turn Back. This was a great way to end the project, what I would call the sandwich approach, start heavy with one piece of bread, (KING) put the ingredients in the middle (5 songs) and end heavy second piece of bread(Can’t Turn Back). Free Lunch, what a fulfilling meal.

As the listener comes to the end of this musical motion picture, “FREE LUNCH” I believe they will want to rewind it and replay it. One of the best things about this project is that it is neat and well arranged. I’m sure this comes from Evrything Cost tutelage from greats Diddy Combs and Pete Rock as well as him being a fan and loving not only hip hop but music as a whole.

When asked what he calls his music, he stated “Urban Inspiration”. I hope to hear more of Everything Cost in the near future, he is not what hip hop is missing but what the music game needs. I will await his full length album project titled The Harvest, but until then, FREE LUNCH will satisfy my appetite. I advise all to get there Free Lunch and eat early.

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WHAT YOUR MAN GOT TO DO WITH ME. POSITIVE K

Ladies always say I Got A Man and Positive K‘s response is “What Ya Man Got To With Me”. A hip hop emcee and songwriter born in the Bronx,NY on August 8,1967 known as Darryl Gibson aka Positive K had a few hits in 1992 such as I Got A Man and I’m Not Havin’ It ft. MC Lyte. He had a guest appearance on Brand Nubian’s One for All and another on Grand Puba’s Reel to Reel, along with a Big Daddy Kane produced single, “Nightshift“, released on Island Records. Positive K teamed up with Greg Nice on his song “Make It Happen” in 2015 which led to a pairing that would result in a full-length album in 2017, preceded by its lead single was “Bring It.”The pair refer to themselves individually as PK Dolla and N.I. and collectively as Gr8te Mindz, but where sold online the album is listed as a release by Positive K and Greg NicePositive K is still performing and he can be followed on social media facebook Darryl Gibson.

As he would say “Excuse Me Miss

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